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By Francis K Githinji
The processes of bringing a new born into this world is not an easy one. Sometimes it disables those buttons that switch you on to a sex mode. You do not feel like it because you are switched off sexually. How do you activate your sex life again. How do you get in the mood when you are not? Go to the control panel, your brain. It is all in your mind, the brain is the largest sexual organ. It only needs some fine tuning and your sex life will be up and kicking just like it used to be before the onset of child birth. Play mind games with yourself. It is all psychological. You can capture those sexual encounters that left you drenched in pleasure before. Engage in sex talk and flattery with your partner just to get you in the mood for sex after birth.
Take a long and relaxing shower to tone down the muscles. Visit the massage parlour afterwards. But it would put you in the right mood if you let your partner to massage you. Before he is through you will have submitted to the power of his touch. His subtle ways of massaging will serve to arouse you sexually and set you in the right mood for sex. You will realize that sex after is so pleasurable. You would want to do it over and over again. It shakes you to the bone marrow and leaves you gasping. It is like sex after has become better than ever before. You long for more because the experience is just too good to resist.
The one thing that makes you not to be in a mood for sex after is your child. Your baby takes all the attention from you such that you have no time to spare for anything else. Sex seems to be such a remote idea to you. To overcome this situation, find some one to take
care of the child sometimes. It will help you to forget all those obligations and spend some quality time with your man alone. It will help you to venture out of that baby circle and get in the mood for pleasurable love making. Let the baby not hog all the attention from you. It will kill your once active sex life because you have no time to spare for it. Get a good nanny to stand in for you as you try to spruce up your sex life.
You can take a small holiday vacation together with your partner after recovering from child birth. It will help you relax and recover all the energy you had lost. It will restore the vigor and vitality in you such that by the time you are coming back you feel like a new person. A holiday helps break the routine and brings a change of environment. Let your partner bring all the good feelings to you during this time. Surrender yourself to him. Hold and cuddle. It feels so good you will naturally feel in the mood for lovemaking. You will realize sex after has never been better. Article Source: http://www.upublish.info About the Author:
Francis K Githinji
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